Thursday, March 16, 2006

keep search'ng

u are in constant search for a good life.. that's not wrong good house .. not wrong good food .. not wrong new job.. not wrong new saloon .. not wrong move to costlier whiskey ..not at all wrong car .. why not but when u know, u no longer connect with someone and if u close the door ?? -- wrong..!! materialistic, relationship .. u want better, nicer it makes sense doesn't it ! ... but its hard to put these points across.. may be centric, but ... so what abt love, ppl ask? everyone should fall in love as many times as u can what's wrong with u.. ppl burst at u there's nothing wrong. aren't we grown adults !! u fall in a relationship to c where u can go. i am not one for commitment.. i just want to be part of ur life..till it lasts in ur life time u come across lot more ppl, .. happy u came across... but u want more... u flow when will it end.. i donno hope it doesn't ! u have no heart.. thanks

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

woo

Anonymous said...

People's opinions need not be your reality. When you no longer connect with someone and choose to close the door on that relationship, there is nothing wrong with that. If you find yourself to be the sort of person who tends to drift in and out of relationships, thats only because you really haven't figured what you are looking for, and you are only striving to gratify some need of your's which is strongest and most prevalent in that phase of your life. This changes. And hence you find the need to change your partner as well. But your core doesn't change. And perhaps your search for the right person comes to an end when you meet someone with whose 'core' you truly connect. And not merely through sex and/or emotions. However, living in a society comprising of stringent mindsets and tendencies to judge, changing partners would tend to raise more eyebrows than it would have been the case were you to change a house/car, simply because changing a partner involves another human being. Another complex set of emotions. Another complex life form. In the long run it would still define your search for something more meaningful. Perhaps then, you would find the faith to commit. All the best.

i-me-moi said...

we must catch up :D time for an update.

Anonymous said...

someone please tell me whats the deal with committment.

Anonymous said...

@jedi: you'll know once you find 'the one'